{"id":32646,"date":"2026-04-13T14:45:24","date_gmt":"2026-04-13T11:45:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/?p=32646"},"modified":"2026-04-13T14:45:26","modified_gmt":"2026-04-13T11:45:26","slug":"eskidendi-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/2026\/04\/13\/eskidendi-o\/","title":{"rendered":"ESK\u0130DEND\u0130 O!.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eskiden ve \u015eimdi: \u0130nsan \u0130li\u015fkilerinin \u0130\u00e7imizde B\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bo\u015fluk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eskiden hayat daha m\u0131 g\u00fczeldi bilinmez\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama insanlar birbirine daha yak\u0131nd\u0131, oras\u0131 kesin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6yle b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler yoktu asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir \u00e7ay vard\u0131, bir selam vard\u0131, bir de i\u00e7ten bir \u201cnas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama o \u201cnas\u0131ls\u0131n\u201d ger\u00e7ekten sorulurdu. Cevab\u0131 da ger\u00e7ekten dinlenirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kap\u0131lar \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131 eskiden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Habersiz gelinirdi ama kimse yad\u0131rgamazd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHo\u015f geldin\u201d denirdi, hemen bir \u00e7ay konurdu oca\u011fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sohbet kendili\u011finden uzard\u0131, saatler nas\u0131l ge\u00e7erdi kimse anlamazd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi ise birinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7almak bile cesaret istiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6nce mesaj at\u0131yoruz, sonra cevap bekliyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gel derse gidiyoruz, demezse i\u00e7imizden k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p susuyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eskiden k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar da ba\u015fkayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsanlar dar\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 ama vazge\u00e7mezdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Araya zaman girse bile bir g\u00fcn yine bir yol bulunurdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi ise en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir yanl\u0131\u015fta silip at\u0131yoruz birbirimizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir tu\u015fla hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yoruz insanlar\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sanki hi\u00e7 ya\u015famam\u0131\u015f gibi, hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mam\u0131\u015f gibi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oysa insan dedi\u011fin kolay yeti\u015fmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir bak\u0131\u015fta, bir g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015fte, bir hat\u0131rda birikiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama biz art\u0131k biriktirmeyi de\u011fil, t\u00fcketmeyi \u00f6\u011frendik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi herkes konu\u015fuyor\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama kimse ger\u00e7ekten anlatm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herkes dinliyormu\u015f gibi yap\u0131yor ama kimse kimsenin i\u00e7ine bakm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayn\u0131 masada oturuyoruz mesela\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama herkes ba\u015fka bir yerde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Telefon ekranlar\u0131nda kaybolmu\u015f hayatlar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fc\u015fler bile yar\u0131m, bak\u0131\u015flar bile eksik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yan yanay\u0131z ama asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok uza\u011f\u0131z birbirimize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve garip olan \u015fu ki\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimse yaln\u0131z\u0131m demiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama herkes biraz yaln\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u00e7imizde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen, ad\u0131n\u0131 koyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir bo\u015fluk var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n i\u00e7inde bile insan\u0131n i\u00e7i sessiz kalabiliyor art\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki de mesele teknoloji de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki mesele biziz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kolay ula\u015f\u0131nca zor k\u0131ymet bilmeyi unuttuk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her \u015fey h\u0131zland\u0131 diye, kalbimiz de acele etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oysa insan ili\u015fkisi emek ister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Biraz sab\u0131r ister, biraz anlay\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen susmay\u0131, bazen dinlemeyi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen de hi\u00e7bir \u015fey demeden sadece yan\u0131nda olmay\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi kendimize d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakma zaman\u0131 belki de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En son ne zaman i\u00e7ten bir \u201cnas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d dedik birine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En son ne zaman birinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131k?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En son ne zaman birinin derdini ger\u00e7ekten dinledik?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki de her \u015fey h\u00e2l\u00e2 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki h\u00e2l\u00e2 d\u00fczelebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir mesaj yerine bir ziyaret, Bir \u201cg\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u201d yerine bir ses, Bir ekran yerine bir y\u00fcz\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Az\u0131c\u0131k yava\u015flasak, Az\u0131c\u0131k daha i\u00e7ten olsak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne olursa olsun, insana yine en iyi gelen \u015fey insand\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eskiden ve \u015eimdi: \u0130nsan \u0130li\u015fkilerinin \u0130\u00e7imizde B\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bo\u015fluk Eskiden hayat daha m\u0131 g\u00fczeldi bilinmez\u2026 Ama insanlar birbirine daha yak\u0131nd\u0131, oras\u0131 kesin. 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