{"id":31264,"date":"2025-12-29T15:22:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-29T12:22:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/?p=31264"},"modified":"2025-12-29T15:22:25","modified_gmt":"2025-12-29T12:22:25","slug":"yasamayan-kadinlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/2025\/12\/29\/yasamayan-kadinlar\/","title":{"rendered":"YA\u015eAMAYAN KADINLAR.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her k\u00f6\u015fe ba\u015f\u0131nda, kald\u0131r\u0131m ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne ili\u015ftirilmi\u015f iki tabure ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir masayla kurulan seyyar kahvehaneler vard\u0131r. \u00c7ay demlenir, bardaklar de\u011fi\u015fir, s\u00f6z d\u00f6ner dola\u015f\u0131r memleket meselelerine gelir. Hayat orada k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine durur. Konu\u015fmak rahatlat\u0131r, insan kendini i\u015fin i\u00e7indeymi\u015f gibi hisseder. Kimseyi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeye gerek yok; bu \u00fclke konu\u015farak ayakta durdu\u011funu sanmay\u0131 sever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 di\u011ferlerinden \u00e7ok daha me\u015fguld\u00fcr evli bekar ve dul kad\u0131nlar\u0131n listesini tutarlar, futbolcular\u0131n transferlerine kafa yorarlar, memleketin ba\u015f\u0131nda olsalar neler yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 hesap ederler. A\u011f\u0131r abilerdir, yanl\u0131\u015fa tahamm\u00fcl edemez yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131lacaksa kendileri yapar kimseye laf getirtmezler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Konu\u015fman\u0131n sustu\u011fu, alk\u0131\u015f\u0131n hi\u00e7 u\u011framad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u015fka bir yer vard\u0131r. Evlerin i\u00e7i, tarlalar\u0131n ortas\u0131, mutfaklar\u0131n arka k\u00f6\u015fesi. Kad\u0131nlar o g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez alanlar\u0131nda ta\u015f\u0131 elekten ge\u00e7irir gibi sab\u0131rla yo\u011furur hayat\u0131. Alt taraf\u0131 yeme\u011fi haz\u0131rlar, iki \u00fc\u00e7 par\u00e7a da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131k toplar, \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011furmay\u0131 bildi\u011fi gibi bakmay\u0131 da bilir, varsa tarlay\u0131 s\u00fcrer ,eee; s\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015fken de eker ekmi\u015fken de bi\u00e7er . Bir i\u015f biter, di\u011feri ba\u015flar. Bunlar\u0131 da yapmasa zaten ne diye beslenecektir ki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00fck\u00fc sessizdir, d\u00fczenlidir, aksatmadan yap\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsan ancak eksildi\u011finde anlar k\u0131ymetini; ama o noktaya gelene kadar her \u015fey \u201cnormal\u201d kabul edilir. Eksildi\u011finde yerini doldurmak da zaten zahmetsiz bir i\u015ftir. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fler b\u00f6yle i\u015flerdir. Olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kriz \u00e7\u0131kar, oldu\u011funda kimse durup bakmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fin zor taraf\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcn kendisi de\u011fildir belki; y\u00fck\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezli\u011fidir. Kad\u0131nlar her \u015feyi \u00fcstlenir ama bunun kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda alk\u0131\u015f bekleme haklar\u0131 yoktur. Yorulduysa k\u0131ymet bilmezdir, \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcyse dikkat \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordur, y\u0131prand\u0131ysa b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn evde bir i\u015fe yaramad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndand\u0131r. Kendisi i\u00e7in bir \u015fey istedi\u011finde ya eski k\u00f6ye yeni adet getiriyordur ya da can\u0131 dert \u00e7ekiyordur. Sonu\u00e7 olarak nank\u00f6rd\u00fcr. S\u00fcrprizler filmlerde, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler avludaki saks\u0131dad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Erkekleri b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle kar\u015f\u0131ya koymak kolay, ama eksik olur. \u00c7o\u011fu bu d\u00fczenin i\u00e7inde \u00f6\u011frenir her \u015feyi. Konu\u015fan\u0131n de\u011ferli, ta\u015f\u0131yan\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez oldu\u011fu bir d\u00fcnyada b\u00fcy\u00fcr. Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa dur demek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmay\u0131 da gerektirir ve haliyle hi\u00e7 kimsenin buna vakti yoktur. B\u00f6yle gelmi\u015f b\u00f6yle giderlerle yeterince gidildi\u011fini, duvara toslamadan fark etmek b\u00fcy\u00fck inceliktir. \u0130ncelik de can\u0131m \u00fclkemde erke\u011fe yak\u0131\u015fan bir zanaat de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad\u0131n\u0131n kad\u0131na etti\u011fine ise hi\u00e7 girmiyorum bile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunca \u015feyle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rken kendine d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakmaya vakit bulamayan kad\u0131nlar, d\u00f6rt bir yandan ku\u015fat\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7emberden ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya uzatamadan sessizce k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr solar ve yok olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her \u015fey g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fczce olsun!..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Her k\u00f6\u015fe ba\u015f\u0131nda, kald\u0131r\u0131m ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne ili\u015ftirilmi\u015f iki tabure ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir masayla kurulan seyyar kahvehaneler vard\u0131r. \u00c7ay demlenir, bardaklar de\u011fi\u015fir, s\u00f6z d\u00f6ner dola\u015f\u0131r memleket <a href=\"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/2025\/12\/29\/yasamayan-kadinlar\/\" class=\"read-more-link\">[more&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":31265,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-gundem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31264"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31264\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31266,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31264\/revisions\/31266"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}