{"id":20693,"date":"2024-02-19T12:24:48","date_gmt":"2024-02-19T09:24:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/?p=20693"},"modified":"2024-02-19T12:24:48","modified_gmt":"2024-02-19T09:24:48","slug":"dostca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/2024\/02\/19\/dostca\/","title":{"rendered":"DOST\u00c7A"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

YA\u015eLANMAK G\u0130B\u0130S\u0130 VAR MI?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Side Belediyesi eski ba\u015fkan\u0131 de\u011ferli dostum Osman Delikkulak bir yaz\u0131 g\u00f6ndermi\u015f, UFUK TARHAN\u2019a ait bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 bug\u00fcn sizinle payla\u015fmak istedim..Be\u011fenece\u011finiz umuduyla..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya\u015f almak mutlu eder insan\u0131, ya\u015flanmak \u00fczer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya\u015flanma ile ilgili ne zaman bir makale okusam, hemen akl\u0131ma Aziz Nesin’in yetmi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131m merhaba  dedi\u011fi yaz\u0131s\u0131 akl\u0131ma gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O\u011flu Ali Nesin’e yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir mektubunda yetmi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011fini sorunlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ya\u015fam\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerini anlat\u0131rken, o\u011ful Ali’ de mektuba cevaben \u015funlar\u0131 yaz\u0131yordu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Sevgili babac\u0131\u011f\u0131m, yetmi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kutluyorsun. Ya\u015f yetmi\u015f i\u015f bitmi\u015f dedi\u011fin olay burada Amerika’da  gayet ola\u011fan ve dolu dolu ya\u015fanan bir ya\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hatta anlataca\u011f\u0131m olayda oldu\u011fu gibi \u00f6zlenen bir ya\u015f bile olabiliyor. Bizim \u015fehrin (San Francisco) a\u011f\u0131r ceza hakimi 90 ya\u015f\u0131nda ve hala b\u00fcy\u00fck bir arzuyla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. \u0130nsanlar onun \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma azmine ve sa\u011flam mant\u0131\u011f\u0131na hayranlar. Ge\u00e7enlerde bir \u00f6\u011flen tatilinde hakim, sandvi\u00e7ini al\u0131p d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f. Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla beraber g\u00fcne\u015ften yararlan\u0131p y\u00fcr\u00fcyorlarm\u0131\u015f. Yanlar\u0131ndan bir ka\u00e7 tane g\u00fczel bayan ge\u00e7erken, han\u0131mlara imrenerek ve hafif\u00e7e de i\u00e7 \u00e7ekerek arkada\u015flar\u0131na s\u00f6yle demi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

” Ah ulan ke\u015fke \u015fimdi yetmi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda olsayd\u0131m .!”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yle babac\u0131\u011f\u0131m, buralarda insanlar ya\u015famla ilgilerini hi\u00e7 kesmiyorlar”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130htiyarl\u0131k m\u0131 yoksa ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k m\u0131 ?   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin arka pl\u00e2n\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Yani kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z dil, sizin hangi d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne d\u00e2hil oldu\u011funuzu ele verir. Ya da felsef\u00ee arka pl\u00e2n\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her ne kadar g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde insanlar\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir k\u0131sm\u0131 dilin \u00f6nemini kavramad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in rastgele konu\u015fsa da, asl\u0131nda dil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenizin k\u00f6klerini ele verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Biz, dilimizi ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bozmadan \u00f6nce b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimize \u201cihtiyar.!\u201d derdik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u201c\u0130htiyar\u201d kelimesinin l\u00fcg\u00e2t anlam\u0131 \u201cse\u00e7ilmi\u015f.!\u201d demektir. baz\u0131 \u00f6zellikleri ile \u201c…se\u00e7ilmi\u015f ve uzunca bir s\u00fcre hayatta kalmay\u0131 hak etmi\u015f insan olmak..!\u201d anlam\u0131na geliyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130htiyarl\u0131k, g\u00fczel \u00e2detlerin ve faydal\u0131 bilgilerin yeni nesillere ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 g\u00f6revini kaps\u0131yordu. Bu sebeple, gelene\u011fimizde ihtiyarlara b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steriliyor, onlar\u0131n hay\u0131r du\u00e2lar\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in insanlar \u00f6zel \u00e7aba harc\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Herkes onlara gerekli sayg\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor, bir m\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcl ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onlardan ak\u0131l al\u0131yordu. Ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan ihtil\u00e2flar ihtiyarlar\u0131n hakemli\u011finde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcyor, onlar\u0131n tecr\u00fcbeleri sayesinde toplumda huzur, sayg\u0131 ve sevgi h\u00e2kim oluyordu.\u0130htiyarlar\u0131m\u0131za \u201cya\u015fl\u0131.!\u201d demeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcnden bu yana, onlar hakk\u0131ndaki alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fime u\u011frad\u0131. \u00d6ncelikle onlar\u0131 kendilerinden faydalan\u0131lacak tecr\u00fcbeli insanlar olarak g\u00f6rmekten vazge\u00e7tik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hatt\u00e2 onlar\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fin k\u00f6hne zihniyetinin ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fck. As\u0131rlar\u0131 a\u015farak gelen sayg\u0131, yerini bir \u00e7e\u015fit aymazl\u0131\u011fa, daha sonra da antipatiye b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oysaki d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda bilge insanlar ,ya\u015f almak ile ilgili ne g\u00fczel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler \u00fcretmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130yi olan be\u015f eski \u015fey vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Bilge ve ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek i\u00e7in eski arkada\u015flar,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Is\u0131nmak i\u00e7in eski yakacak odun,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*\u0130\u00e7ilecek eski \u015farap,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Okunacak eski kitaplar..!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emile A. Faguet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“G\u00fczel bir ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla yap\u0131lan onurlu bir anla\u015fmadan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gabriel Garcia Marques;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ya\u015flanmak b\u00fcy\u00fck bir da\u011fa t\u0131rmanmak gibidir: T\u0131rmand\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz azal\u0131r ama bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z daha \u00f6zg\u00fcr, vizyonunuz daha geni\u015f ve dingin olur.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ingmar Bergman;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ya\u015fam\u0131n ilk k\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131 bize metni verir; sonraki otuz y\u0131l\u0131 yorum.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arthur Schopenhauer;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ya\u015fl\u0131lar gen\u00e7lere g\u00fcvenmiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar da bir zamanlar gen\u00e7ti.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

William Shakespeare;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Gen\u00e7ler kurallar\u0131 biliyor ama ya\u015fl\u0131lar istisnalar\u0131 biliyor.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oliver Wendell Holmes;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Gen\u00e7likte \u00f6\u011freniriz, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131kta anlar\u0131z.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Marie von Ebner Eschenbach;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“\u0130nsan\u0131n olgunlu\u011fu, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dinginli\u011fe kavu\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frederich Nietzsche;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ya\u015fl\u0131 bir adam gen\u00e7 bir adam\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapamaz; ama daha iyisini yapar.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7i\u00e7ero;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek iki y\u0131l, susmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek ise altm\u0131\u015f y\u0131l al\u0131r.!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ernest Hemingway;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“En ya\u015fl\u0131 a\u011fa\u00e7lar en tatl\u0131 meyveyi verir..!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alman atas\u00f6z\u00fc;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ailenizde ya\u015fl\u0131 bir adam yoksa bir tane edinin..!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7in Milenyum Atas\u00f6z\u00fc;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k, miras ald\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 al\u0131r ve bize hak etti\u011fimizi verir..!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sevgiyle g\u00fcler y\u00fczle  UFUK TARHAN..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haydi, kal\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131cakla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her \u015fey y\u00fcre\u011finize g\u00f6re olsun..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HOPDED\u0130K
YA\u015e MI?..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne ya\u015f\u0131 be karde\u015fim..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

70\u2019de olsa fark etmiyor,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben kendimi seviyorum..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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