G\u00fcnayd\u0131n g\u00fczel insanlar\u2026
\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek, bir\u00e7ok zorluk ve kayg\u0131y\u0131 beraberinde getirir. Kendimizi yetersiz hissetti\u011fimiz, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz, hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzda travmaya yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 korkusuyla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar olabilir. Bu durumlar, \u00e7o\u011fu ebeveynin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 normal duygulard\u0131r. Ancak bu duygular\u0131n bizi esir almas\u0131na izin vermemeliyiz. Kronos’un hikayesi, ebeveyn kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n bir simgesidir. Kronos, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kendisine ihanet edece\u011fi korkusuyla onlar\u0131 yutmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu hikaye, ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 hissettikleri kayg\u0131lar\u0131 ve korkular\u0131 simgeler. Korku ve kayg\u0131 kavramlar\u0131 genellikle birbiriyle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Ancak bu iki kavram aras\u0131nda \u00f6nemli farklar vard\u0131r. Korkunun nesnesi belli iken, kayg\u0131n\u0131n nesnesi belirsizdir ve genellikle gelece\u011fe y\u00f6neliktir. Korkular\u0131m\u0131zla ba\u015f etme mekanizmalar\u0131m\u0131z korku nesnesi ile sava\u015fmak i\u00e7in harekete ge\u00e7er. Ancak kayg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla ba\u015f etme mekanizmalar\u0131n\u0131, kayg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 gidermekte yetersiz g\u00f6rme e\u011filiminde olmaktay\u0131z. \u00c7ocukluk deneyimlerimiz, kendi aile sistemlerimizi geli\u015ftirmemizde b\u00fcy\u00fck rol oynar. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzda \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z tutumlar\u0131n yerine sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olanlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmemiz de m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u00d6\u011frenme tek y\u00f6nl\u00fc ve de\u011fi\u015ftirilemez bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 de\u011fildir. \u00d6z \u015fefkat, ebeveynli\u011fin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fefkatli olmak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 da daha \u015fefkatli olmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. \u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek, zorlu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir ve bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kayg\u0131lar ve korkular normaldir. Ancak \u00f6nemli olan bu duygular\u0131n bizi esir almas\u0131na izin vermemektir. Kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fefkatli olmak ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sevgiyle yeti\u015ftirmek, bu s\u00fcreci daha kolay hale getirecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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G\u00fcnayd\u0131n g\u00fczel insanlar\u2026\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek, bir\u00e7ok zorluk ve kayg\u0131y\u0131 beraberinde getirir. Kendimizi yetersiz hissetti\u011fimiz, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz, hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzda travmaya yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 korkusuyla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z [more…]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17702,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17891"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17891\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17702"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akdenizhaber.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}